Never Split the Difference
Chris Voss · Negotiation tactics from a former FBI hostage negotiator, usable at work and home.
6 people say it helped them, in their own words on Hacker News.
What people said
The book changed the way I handle communication. There are actionable practical tips and tools for communication and it shaped how I think about a hard phone call, how to prepare for a meeting
Basically the book (and other tools) has helped me become a better listener (I have always been decent at the talking side).
it shifted just about all of my conversations from starting with "you're dumb and here's why" to "let's make sure we agree on what the problem is"
Gave me the technique to understand what I have to know on the other side, to come out making a win-win situation
Fundamental things that have improved my relationships with many people in my life.
"Never split the difference" has made a huge difference for my communication style.
Description from Open Library
"A negotiation guide from a former FBI Hostage Negotiator"--
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"Never Split The Difference is a riveting, indispensable handbook of negotiation principles culled and perfected from Chris Voss's remarkable career as a hostage negotiator and later as an award-winning teacher in the world's most prestigious business schools. From policing the rough streets of Kansas City, Missouri, to becoming the FBI's lead international kidnapping negotiator, to teaching negotiation at leading universities, Voss has tested these techniques across the full spectrum of human endeavor and proved their effectiveness.
Those who have benefited from these techniques include business clients generating millions in additional profits, MBA students getting better jobs, and even parents dealing with their kids. Never Split The Difference provides a gripping, behind-the-scenes recounting of dramatic scenarios from the gang-infested streets of Haiti to a Brooklyn bank robbery gone horribly wrong, revealing the negotiation strategies that helped Voss and his colleagues succeed where it mattered most: saving lives.
As a world-class negotiator, Voss shows you how to use these skills in the workplace and in every other realm of your life. Life is a series of negotiations: whether buying a car, getting a better raise, buying a home, renegotiating rent, or deliberating with your partner, Never Split The Difference gives you the competitive edge in any discussion."--Jacket.
What people got from it AI summary
Best if you want practical communication tools for negotiating, hard conversations, and listening better.
- Better listening
- Calmer hard conversations
- Win-win negotiating
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Practical tools · 288 pages
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